David Andrew Kilby (86-88) was born on 29 February 1972 to Ann and Ted Kilby, and attended Pocklington School from 1986 to 1988. 

David lived in Armthorpe, Doncaster, close to both his brothers, and family was always at the heart of his life. When in his mid-twenties, he faced the immense challenge of being diagnosed with Myotonic Dystrophy, a rare genetic condition that causes progressive muscle weakness and for which there is no known cure.

Despite this, David bore his diagnosis with remarkable fortitude. He never complained, meeting each day with resilience and a determination to live life as fully as possible. He loved rugby and although he admitted he was never a star player, he played to the best of his ability, and the single try he scored became a treasured memory, made all the more special because of the effort it took. Off the field, he remained an avid supporter, finding great pleasure in watching matches on television and sharing in the camaraderie of the sport he loved.

David passed away on 9 November 2025 aged 53. His strength of character, his unwavering positivity, and his ability to find happiness in life’s simple moments will be remembered by all who knew him.

Anne and Ted Kilby