Heather Skaife was born in Pickering on 25 November 1933, the second eldest child of Les and Mollie Lazenby. Educated at Lady Lumley’s Grammar School, she initially aspired to teach but began her career in the family business while studying accounts and bookkeeping in the evenings.

In 1954, Heather married Michael Skaife, and their son Ashley was born in 1963. The family moved to Norwich in 1964 due to her husband’s job as Clerk of Works for British Rail. During this time Heather studied childcare and went on to set up a nursery school and toddler group. In 1972, they returned to York when her husband was relocated to the city with his work. Heather soon found herself facing life as a single mum which she approached with her characteristic resilience and determination. She worked at a local nursery before becoming a House Matron in several boarding schools, most notably Pocklington School, where she was remembered for her kindness and care. 

In the late 1980s, Heather moved to Lancashire, working as a housekeeper for Clarence, a sheepdog trainer. Their enduring friendship brought Heather many happy years, often spent at sheepdog trials and even trips to the United States. She returned to York two decades ago to enjoy her retirement. 

In her later years, Heather faced the challenges of dementia with courage and grace, supported by Ashley and devoted carers. Despite her declining health, Heather remained cheerful and stoic, a testament to her inner strength. She passed away peacefully at home on 3 November 2025, aged 91, with Ashley by her side.

Ashley Skaife